Monday, January 30, 2012
Want to be Wildly Successful? Make a Decision!!!
Are you stuck in a rut and can't see your way out? Are you merely surviving or are you thriving in this game called life?
Trust me, I have been there. I used to be an attorney who hated what I did for a living. I wasn't being fulfilled and I knew that I could be doing more with my life. I longed to live the life I had envisioned as a child but as an adult, I felt like I was slowly sinking in a quicksand of my own making.
I had people tell me I am a dynamic speaker and creative individual but I was too afraid to try and use these skills to make a living. You see, I suffered from being paralyzed in my own mind.
Then, something happened. I realized that I was tired of being frustrated with my life. I was tired of reading stories about successful people and thinking that they must have something special about them that I did not. Wrong!!! In an instant, I came to feel like it was my right to be successful but I had to make a decision and stick to it.
Those people you read about are no better than you. They just stopped making excuses and did what they had to do to make it!!! Did you just read what I wrote? They made a decision that every thing they did was towards them being successful.
For example, when I stopped making excuses, I started my own lingerie company that was successful from jump. Curvy Girlz Lingerie is my baby and I put my all into it. Not just money, but time and energy too. Then, I started looking for opportunities to get my name out there. That led me to blogging on 4 different websites. I entered and won business plan competitions. I started networking and joining business clubs. Oh yeah, I cut the haters out of my life!!!
Wouldn't you know it, when I made the decision that I was going to be on television, it came true. Get ready, on February 16, 2012, I will be on a major nationwide show giving my elevator pitch and discussing my business.
This all happened within the span of 6 months. I went from wishing and hoping to doing and achieving. You can do this too.
1. Make a decision that you will be wildly successful.
2. Don't make excuses and take responsibility for all your actions, directly or indirectly.
3. Make sure all of your thoughts are on abundance and success.
4. Network, network, network with the people you need to surround yourself with so your dreams can come true.
5. Eliminate the haters, doubters and losers from your life. They are negative and will never help you move forward.
6. Speak success everyday till its a part of your nature.
7. Keep moving forward.
If you keep these principles daily and get clear about what it is you want to do, in no time, you will be there. Keep moving forward. Make a decision to be wildly successful today!!!